Family connections

Children and young people are connected to several people through informal family and social networks. The stability that is provided to a child by having a lifetime network of supportive adults, and a sense of belonging, creates the foundation for relational and physical permanency. Legal permanency can be used to reinforce and strengthen the relational and physical dimensions. (Refer to Dimensions of permanency.)

Use the Circles of Safety and Support Tool to identify the important relationships already in place around children. When we use this tool with a child and their family, we can gather rich information that we may not have known about.

Family Finding

‘Family Finding’ is a process developed by Kevin Campbell and colleagues in the United States that seeks to connect children with family and other supportive adults who will love and care for them now and across their lifespan.

Family Finding asserts the importance of relational permanency for children. It also stresses the importance of stable relationships in providing a sense of security and belonging that builds resilience and coping skills for children and young people, better preparing them for adulthood. The central beliefs of family finding are as follows:

• All children have family members who can be found.
• Children have a right to know the whereabouts and wellbeing of their family members.
• A sense of identity, belonging and being loved unconditionally is essential to a child’s health, development and dignity.
• Connection is a prerequisite to healing.
• Successful support for traumatised children relies on respectful, collaborative engagement with family members.
• Parents and families generally want the best for their children and need connections and supports to be able to provide adequate care for them. 

Family contact

Family contact is key in developing a child’s relational permanency. It is extremely important in developing and maintaining relationships between children, siblings, their parents, extended families and communities. It must be regularly reviewed, focusing on the quality of this contact.

The views and wishes of a child, their siblings, the child’s parents, and members of the child’s safety and support network should be considered when determining how contact will progress. 

As Australia’s definition of family moves more away from the traditional ‘nuclear’ definition, so does the definition of who is a sibling.

The Child Welfare Information Gateway’s Bulletin described some of the relationships that could now be considered as ‘sibling’:

• full or half-siblings, including any children who were relinquished or removed at birth
• step-siblings
• adopted children in the same household, not biologically related
• children born into the family and their foster/adopted siblings
• other close relatives or nonrelatives living in the same kinship home
• foster children in the same family
• friends with a close, enduring relationship
• children of the partner or former partner of the child’s parent
• individuals conceived from the same sperm or egg donor (McDowall).